No, no - not that kind of adult version.
I’m talking about actual sleep here.
More precisely, cuddle habits.
Allow me to set the scene.
It’s 10pm and the two of us climb into bed. Jon grabs his 3 pillows, places two under his head and one on top of his face. He lays on his back.
I climb in, move both of my pillows off to the side, and snuggle up to Jon. He shifts. I wait and when he’s done, I snuggle up closer. He shifts again and tells me he’s uncomfortable. I say “ok, then you snuggle me.” He sighs, turns and spoons me. I snuggle up with my pillows and let out a happy sigh.
10 minutes later Jon shifts away. I let out a frustrated sigh. Jon falls asleep in 5 minutes. I stay up for another 30 because I can’t fall asleep unless I’m snuggling.
Tell me - are you a snuggler?
If you’re snuggling, are you the big spoon or the little spoon?